Teddy Roosevelt once said, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

I once said, “People won’t know how much you care until they feel real support.”

Teddy's flows better, but mine has merit.

Here's a quick guide to supporting those you care about.

REAL Support™

Relate to their challenges, don’t judge them.

Encourage their efforts, don’t criticize them.

Ask them questions, don’t tell them what to do.

And Let go. Don't try to control them. Don’t let your self-worth be determined by their success or failure.

That’s plenty, but there’s more.

If you have a relationship with Jesus Christ, then you get a bonus “L.” You can Let God.

Have faith in God’s power. Draw upon His peace through any challenge. And look to His perfect example of love, sacrifice & support.

Thanks for letting me share.

Aaron Sorrels - The Unemployed Alcoholic

Contact me if you want to talk recovery or support